is nazareth the band really right..love hurts?

I am sitting here struggling with what to do and what I usually do when im struggling is get on here..or vent to someone..i did that it didn't help. I am soo confused and consumed..when do you end a relationship if they don't say they love you? Is it fair to judge someone to that standard and let them go because of a verbal statement? Or is it more you know if they can't say it they don't feel it and that is more what hurts? I am not sure the answers on any of these..but I do know that every person out there deserves someone to be head over heels for them..not necesarily like ohh let me get you this or do this for you..but to know you can fall into there arms when your having a bad time or call them up and get support from them or vice versa. I mean i know your own happiness is in your own two hands and in yourself, however people close to you tend to usually help right?

So back to just my life, I love this person and I truly want to be with this person. They have a lot of wonderful aspects and they make me laugh and we do laugh together and share lots of each others lives with each other.They have tried to support me in there own way sometimes.Because don't get me wrong i def. have more then the average person going on in their life. However, I also want LOVE the four letters. I want to for sure feel it, don't get me wrong I do feel it from this individual but it very much bothers me that i can't say for sure because they can't just say those words. I mean I guess i understand if your not in love with someone then your not. At the same time giving feelings out that you do is not right either if your not. Maybe i have it all ass backwards but It's how i see it. Just everyone should be completely clear. I feel you never want to regret something that you didn't do when you knew you should have. You can't relive it. At the same point you can't have it all or can you?? Love is alot.